Let It Go Friday!

337828-Have-A-Relaxing-Long-Weekend...happy-Labor-DayHappy Friday y’all! I hope your week has been fantastic and with it finally being the end of the week, you are feeling the best you possibly can. Words cannot even begin to describe how glad I am to have a three day weekend because it is needed for SO many reasons. I think I have already made it perfectly clear how I feel aboutScreen-shot-2013-11-11-at-10.04.50-PM my manager, which is not all that great, but I am learning how to deal with him in healthier ways. I am pleasant when I first arrive at work and then only deal with him when it is absolutely necessary. Most things I can actually handle on my own and in a way that makes our residents and prospects feel understood and respected.

When things become unbelievably frustrating, I try my best to laugh it off and talk about happier topics. Sometimes changing the subject will distract people on bad situations. I think having the ability to add optimism to a negative situation will only increase morale and lessen the negative emotions. The residents at the community I work at respect me and know that if they call, email or come into the office, I will take positiveas much time as required to help resolve their troubles. 

I have already told y’all that I am THRILLED to have a three-day weekend, but there are still many negative feelings I have bottled up over the past week that I need to let go of. Today is the perfect day for not only myself, but for all of us to start letting go of negative feelings. I honestly believe that holding onto those pessimistic and defeatist thoughts will  only hold us back from living that happy life we deserve. The quote I am sharing with y’all today is to help you let go of anything negative you might be feeling and I think it speaks volumes!let go 14

I want to thank you for stopping by my site today❤ and to let you know that I always appreciate your continued and valuable communications. Whether it is on the quotes I share three times a week or something else I write about because I believe your thoughts add so much additional meaning! images (1)

I hope you have an excellent day and your weekend is filled with whatever brings you the most joy because you deserve it. Do you have any plans or are you just going to be spontaneous? I think part of my much needed long weekend will be enjoying not being awoken with an evil alarm clock and other things that I want to do. Please know that I will always be sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort, and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Pick Me Up Thursday!

1of5mvHappy Friday Eve y’all! I hope you have had a lovely week and of course you are feeling well! This week has been a little challenging for me, but at least it is almost over and I have a three day weekend!

So, how has your week been? Are you ready for the weekend and hopefully it is a long weekend for you as well? I can’t decide which is more difficult working with the residents at the apartment community or my co-workers. I think I am leaning more towards my co-workers being far more frustrating than the residents! I mean the 132811-It-s-Almost-Fridayresidents want a comfortable place to live, but it seems as though most of my co-workers just do not want to do the job they are paid to do. I also feel like some of my co-workers think of the residents as a nuisance and forget that without them we would not have a job!

I found a great quote that I think most of us can relate to. I do hope this will give you the pick me up you need to get through one last day this week!quotes-2-1530595049

Thank you for taking the time to stop by my site today! I am looking forward to reading your thoughts on the quote I have shared with y’all today! I hope you have a wonderful day and you know that nothing will get in the way of your own happiness! Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort, and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Forgiveness, is not always easy

Inspirational Quotes SJ image 1We have all heard so many times how important forgiveness is, but no one has ever said it was easy. It actually gets painfully hard to hear those same old meaningless words, “I’m sorry” or even worst, “It will never happen again” because they lost their significance years ago. These words had meaning before they were over used, but unfortunately now they are just empty words put together to form a sentence.

It often seems like the same people apologize for the same things time and time again,It’s-one-of-the-greatest-gifts-you-can-give-yourself-to-forgive.”-e1505928600412 almost like a revolving door. Nothing changed after the first, second, third or I lost count of how many times I have heard those words. I guess it is possible these people had temporary amnesia and did not remember what they were doing was causing irreplaceable pain and distress to those they love. There must be some kind of reasonable explanation, like major miscommunication or confusion because why would anyone cause the same heartache, to the same people, over and over again without making any changes in their behaviors?

arch_forgivenessWhen there have been too many years of tears falling for the same reasons, it is no longer only one person’s fault. Of course the person causing those tears is responsible and should have know, better, but the one with a tear stained face is responsible as well for allowing things to continue on the same dark path. No matter what the situation may be, we all have choices to make that can  alter what the end results will be.

I do understand there are times when someone wants help to correct their negative ways and in that situation at least they have already acknowledged the problem. At the same time, there are those that do not see anything wrong their behaviors and do nothing at all to make things better. In my personal 07-11-17-all-about-love-five-things-forgiveness-is-not-2opinion acceptance is a huge step for anyone to take, but implementing the much needed changes is another colossal step that takes time and patience. 

I will say that being able to forgive and forget isn’t easy, but will actually benefit the one that is forgiving. Letting go of anger and resentment will only create peace of mind. Having the knowledge that you are not able to help someone that doesn’t want help is vital! Also accepting the fact that you are not able to fix another’s troubles and problems is necessary because we unfortunately do not have magical powers. In all honesty, there is only one person that can correct their own lives and if they do not ask for help, there is nothing Awareness-and-Gratitudethat can be done. 

I wrote this not because of anything I was currently feeling, but what I have felt many times in the past. Life is difficult and when you are holding onto any negative feelings because of something you went through, it will only hold you back from living your own life. I have always been one that wants to fix everything for everyone else and accomplished nothing in the process. I often think that caring too much and investing too much into things with no end, only creates way too much stress.84dcc668249d70a1bb91eba8d2f544a8

Thank you so much for visiting my site today. This post may have been a little dark, but I did try adding light to it. Y’all know by now that everything I write comes from the heart with nothing but honesty. I do look forward to reading your thoughts on this and I will respond as quickly as I can. I hope you had a good day and you have a peaceful evening. Please always remember that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Motivational Monday!

monday 3Good morning y’all! I hope you had a lovely weekend, spent doing what brings you the most joy! I worked over the weekend, so I did not have much time to relax or rest. Not only did I work both Saturday and Sunday, but I also went grocery shopping. I think I need a weekend to recover from my weekend!

The good part about working the weekend was that I was able to help at least two families get the apartment they wanted ❤. Honestly both of these families took a little bit of creativity to make it happen, but I am proud to say I was able to think out side the box and find solutions. ❤It is a great feeling when someonebenefits-of-gratitude-1 says with pure gratitude, they appreciate what you have done to help them because no one else took the extra time to do so.

Are y’all ready to start a new week with a fresh mind set? Monday morning is normally a rude awakening with that evil alarm clock, but it is more like a new beginning. We all have our bad days or bad weeks, but at the same time we do not allow anything to stop us! The quote I am sharing with y’all today is something I have said numerous times before and I still believe it wholeheartedly! I do hope you will find this quote a good way to start your week off!Stress11

Thank you so much for visiting my site today! I hope you are feeling well and you have a wonderful day! I do look forward to reading what you think about the quote I have shared and I will respond as quickly as I can. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Let It Go Friday!

smile and let goGood morning y’all and Happy Friday! I often feel that the weeks are getting longer and now having to work some weekends, the weeks are painfully long! How has your week been? Are you looking forward to the much deserved weekend? I hope you are feeling well and you are able to rest over the weekend!

I think it is best to on the final day of the week, let go of anything and everything that occurred that was negative. Letting go of any negative energy will only increase our own happiness, which we deserve! I discovered a wonderful quote that I will definitely hold on to and hope you find it empowering!inspirational-quotes-for-motivation-1-1554092227

I find this quote is so incredibly true! I know I always try my best to make everyone else happy and this can cause a lot of stress, anxiety and even some depression. Sometimes just breathit is just more important to please ourselves and not everyone else in our life. Don’t get me wrong, pleasing others in our life is important, but only when we have that ability. It has taken me a long time to realize we can’t please everyone because it is completely impossible to please some!

Thank you so much for visiting my site today. I am looking forward to reading your thoughts on this quote because I sending-love-compassion-comfort-to-you..pngknow what you think will be amazing! I hope you have a great day and hope your weekend is filled with lots of happiness. Please remember that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Pick-Me-Up-Thursday!

72d00705252a236842b64d73ffea2b77--quotes-friday-thursday-quotesGood morning y’all and a very happy Friday Eve to you as well! I hope y’all had a great week and it has left you feeling well as the weekend approaches. So, how was your week? I am finally learning to put my health above my job and I refuse to push myself beyond my limits!

Do y’all have any plans for the weekend? My plans for the weekend are not at all exciting because I will be at work, but hopefully it will not be out of control busy like it was the last weekend I worked. I have decided if it is crazy busy, I am not going to rush and I will not get myself all worked up because it isn’t worth it!

The quote I am sharing with y’all today speaks volumes to me. I do hope once you have read it, this quote will lift you up and make you feel proud of how much you accomplish!100-Inspirational-Quotes-About-Moving-on-And-Letting-Go-Quotes-009

Thank you for stopping by my site today. I am really looking forward to reading your comments and promise to respond as quickly as I can! I hope you have a lovely day and never stop  being proud of who you are, what you do daily and how much you impact other people’s lives. Also, please never for even a second forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Motivational Monday!

Good morning y’all! I hope you had a lovely Mondayweekend and you are ready to tackle another week. Luckily, I did have the weekend off and I was able to rest and try to recuperate from not feeling well. If I am being totally honest, I still am not feeling my best, but I am going to ignore not feeling well and push through the day. I am not sure if I have been feeling under the weather because of the stress and pressures I allow my job put on me or if it is just the incredibly nasty HOThot-text-fire-flames[1] weather, whatever the cause I can’t allow it to keep me down too long.

I missed doing my Motivational Monday last week due to a nasty migraine, so I am thrilled to be able to share an amazing uplifting and motivating quote with y’all today. I do hope after you read this quote, it sticks with you and you never forget it because each and every one of you are worth SO MUCH ❤❤!!dont let it be you

Whenever you are feeling down, I really want y’all to reread this quote and know your worth ❤! I think it can be very easy to start feeling  your pain settle back into your body, making it incredibly difficult to do what you need to, but just try taking everything slow,stronger than I feel never rush yourself, take breaks when you need to and reach out for help from others. 

Thank you so much for stopping by my site today! I hope you are starting your week off in the best way you can and of course you are feeling well! I also hope you never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤