Motivational Monday!

0e4599cc55a2fec5a47315b3f4beaf12Happy Monday y’all! I hope your weekend was filled with happiness and all that brings you comfort. I tried my best to rest over the weekend because I have been battling a nasty and very annoying cough for way too long. There was a brief time I was feeling better and coughing less, but then someone I work with had it and mine came back with a vengeance. Unfortunately, I do tend to get this same cough 58b0f1c7256c4a126d1ddff462805279--inspirational-monday-quotes-happy-monday-quotesevery year and it lasts for months. I am going to keep this post rather short because I am not feeling 100% and want to feel better and quit coughing so much!

The quote I wanted to share with y’all today is something I think we should all try to remember! Something we may do today can positively or negatively affect our lives. the-future-depends-on-what-we-do-in-the-present-quote-2

I am looking forward to reading your thoughts on the quote I have shared today. I do always find your thoughts to be enlightening and pretty amazing. Hopefully your week starts off great and you can start the new year feeling the best you can and your week continues to get better! Please know that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

3 Days Left of 2019

3-daysCan you believe there are only 3 days left of 2019? It seems like a lot has happened over the past year, heck there has been a lot of negative that has occurred over the past 3 years because of some people wanting to create as much hatred as they possibly could.

I do know there are some that would say I am cynical because I tend to blame most of what has gone wrong in the country I live in on one person in particular. Even though I do firmly believe that the president of the United States should not be in the position he is in, I do not think I am being fair blaming it all on him. The president did not get in the position he is in by himself, he had supporters that fitting-in.jpgbelieve ALL of his lies! Sadly it does not matter how many times what he says is proven to be a lie; his followers continue to blindly believe him. I do not think it is a far fetched idea to say that the president is the ruler of one of the worse and most evil cults in my lifetime!

I do try to not get too political with what I write about because it is a hot topic with many. Disagreements regarding different political beliefs cause so many problems between family and friends. Even though I may disagree with the thoughts of other, especially those that support Trump, I do still think we are all entitled to our own opinions. As strongly as I feel regarding the most if not all hot topics, I will never try to change someone’s mind because it is almost like trying to reason with someone under the influence. I mean seriously have you ever tried to talk to someone that is drunk and have that person be logical? It just isn’t plans-for-new-years-eve.pngpossible!

How are you planning to spend the last 3 days of this year? Do you have any fun plans to bring in 2020? I know that there are many people that want to go out “on the town” and celebrate with friends. I guess I am just getting old because I do not have a desire to go out and spend way too much money on alcohol and cover charges. I think it is far safer and reasonable to just bring in the New Year in the comfort of my own home!

Last year my husband and I brought in 2019 at home with our 2 adorable cats and my husband’s aunt and uncle. We had a great time and maybe spent about ¼ of images (1)the cost we would have if we went out. I have always been a little skeptical about large crowds, but recently it has gotten much worse. There have been so many mass shootings over the past few years which have created a complete lack of safety. It is terrible when you do not even feel safe going to the grocery store because there might be someone in there with a gun andmake it part of the dance bad intentions.

Thank y’all for visiting today! It is so crazy when you have so many ideas running through your head at any given time, but you just have to get all those thoughts out there! I hope you are enjoying your weekend and you are feeling well. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of     love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

 

The meaning of Christmas

Christmas-true-meaningPlease forgive me because I do know how incredibly negative this is going to sound, but I feel like the real meaning of Christmas 🎄 has been lost for a very long time. It seems that in 2019 Christmas has become nothing more than another reason to shop, making this holiday that is supposed to have a deeper meaning, all about consumerism.

To me, the meaning of Christmas 🎄 is a time to share love, respect, and encouragement with2ab1aec3c713ae7f7043b02de2f44be9_XL one another and not degrade others. I strongly believe that instead of tearing others down, we should focus on building them up. It is so important to help family, friends and even acquaintances see the strength they have within themselves. 

This is a time we can spend with our families, but at the same time not put too much stress on ourselves. The only thing canvas-family-love-square-small_grande_6bab9f20-040e-4232-a797-a7aa6efd13a8_2048xstress is going to cause is hostility and negative emotions, which can become way too intense and painful. As much as we all want to be able to visit with our family during the holiday season, sometimes life gets in the way making it impossible. No matter the distance between families love is always there and it is never-ending!

To be completely honest with y’all, I have not been in the 🎄 Christmas spirit at all this year. I am not even 100% sure why I have been slightly anti-Christmas this year. I guess it might be because there are always too many expectations that are not only exhausting but unattainable. I am sure many people will disagree with me and want to torture themselves by trying to be in two or three places at the same time.u-g-Q105OKT0

I remember a time that Christmas was astounding and purely magical. I did grow up in the north where there was ALWAYS sparkling snow ❄ covering the ground at Christmas. Heck, there was snow covering the ground on Thanksgiving. A blanket of snow set a picture-perfect vision that allowed kids to go build    snowmen ⛄, create snow ❄ angels, and have snowball fights!

431de0f92642a15a22b28bf3cf19c41bDo you remember what Christmas was like when you were a child? I remember on Christmas Eve being able to open one of my gifts, which were always new Christmas pajamas to wake up in on Christmas day 🎄. I remember putting Christmas cookies and milk out for Santa and putting a few carrots outside for Santa’ reindeer! I can even recall lying in my bed waiting to hear Santa’s sleigh bells ring, so I could run to the window to see Santa, Rudolph, Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Donder, Comet, Cupid, and Blitzen! Viewing life through the innocent eyes of a child can be refreshing and a beautiful thing.

I do sincerely hope the true meaning of Christmas will surface before next December. DMfurNbUQAM2dJMMaybe by December 2020, more can learn to quit carrying hate in their hearts and let more love through those cast-iron walls. I think the world could be a much happier place if everyone would embrace love!

On Christmas, if you were offered any three gifts of your choice and would forfeit any gifts from the future, what would they be? Keep in mind the skies the limit and any wish you make come true. I have listed what my wishes 16be83960a1c19625588b2fd81f8debb.jpgwould be in no particular order.

  1. I wish there would finally be cures for all the illnesses that cause people so many problems.
  2. I wish all the hate in this world cease to exist and make room for love, kindness, and empathy.
  3. I wish no child went without love ❤ and always had food on the table.

Thank you for stopping by my site today. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and you are feeling well. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort, and many positive vibes.

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

                                           

Motivational Monday!

new-monday-new-week-motivational-gym-quotesHappy Monday y’all! I hope you had an amazing weekend and you are ready for this new and short week to begin! I am delighted that I have both Tuesday and Wednesday off from work! I mean what a great Christmas gift, two days off work that are paid! Are y’all ready for the upcoming download-6.jpgholiday? I am normally much more prepared for holidays, but honestly, this one kind of snuck up on me and I am anything but ready. I was telling my husband the other night that I have been a little anti-Christmas because I am not able to do as much as I would like for people I care about, but that isn’t what Christmas is meant to be about. So what that I can’t buy my family❤ the things I want to,45-Positive-Quotes-to-Achieve-Your-Goals-That-Change-Your-Life-2 at least we are still alive. Of course, some members of the family that are not here physically, but they will ALWAYS live on in our hearts ❤!

I have a wonderful quote that I want to share to kick start your week off! I hope you find motivation and positive within this quote and I do look forward to reading your thoughts about it!

We all deal with so much every day and somehow we manage to handle it all the best way we can. There have been so many times there was something I wanted to do, but then told myself there was no way I really could do it! That is 513YCzqVJqL._SX351_BO1,204,203,200_no way to be because there is nothing we can’t do if we just try and give it our all! Yes, somethings might be a little more difficult than others, but if it is something we want with all our heart ❤ and soul we can do it and then be PROUD of our accomplishment! I guess what I am trying to say is, please never give up on your dreams because someday, your dreams can become your reality!

Thank you for stopping by my site today. I do87108f751752fbc93740613a07d49558.jpg always appreciate your never-ending support and friendship! I hope you have an amazing day to start your week and I hope your week only gets better! Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Donations do help!

NMSS_FY20_YE_Interstitial_r1_mobileI think y’all already know that I have battled with this unpredictable, not so fun autoimmune disease known as Multiple Sclerosis for almost 20 years. For nearly half of my life, I have wanted to not only help others struggling with this disease but also do all I can to help find a cure or at least find easier ways to get through this life.

I may not care much for the news because there is hardly ever anything positive being reported on, but I have heard about how awful the treatment of Amazon workers is. Even though I do find it disgraceful for anyone to be mistreated so we can shop, I am also still a guilty Amazon shopper. Although I am sure there are many issues within the company that starts but doesn’t end with the owner’s corruption and poor treatment of employees, at the same time this company has good as well.

Everyone that shops on Amazon have the opportunity to choose a charity they want to download (5)raise money for through Smile Amazon. The Amazon Smile Foundation will donate 0.5% of the purchase price to the charity of your choice. I received an email at the end of last week informing me that the charity I chose, The National Multiple Sclerosis Society received $258, 617.47 year to day in donations because of Smile Amazon. Of course, it still upsets me to think that any Amazon workers are mistreated, but I am still thankful for the donations made to a cause so close to my heart. I can only hope 41jnsvmBEML._SY365_BO1,204,203,200_the donations Smile Amazon has made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society will help find a cure for this awful disease.

I have been somewhat familiar with The National Multiple Sclerosis Society since being diagnosed all those years ago but recently wanted to know more. I was very interested to find out how this organization began and what more they were doing. I was completely blown away to discover this organization was brought to fruition from one woman full of determination, Sylvia Lawry.download

Ms. Lawry was one of four children to Jacob and Sophie Friedman. While she was in school at Hunter’s College pursuing her law degree, Ms. Lawry’s younger brother Bernard began experiencing visual and balance issues. It was at this time these symptoms were proven to be early signs of Multiple Sclerosis. The family tried for years without success to find a cure for their imagesdear family member. In 1945, the strong-willed and very determined young lady, Ms. Lawry, placed a small classified notice in the New York Times, “Multiple Sclerosis. Will anyone recovered from this disease please communicate with patient.”

Once she received more than 50 replies, Ms. Lawry realized more funds for research, treatment and finding a cause were desperately needed. On March 11, 1946, she pulled together 20 of the nation’s most honored research scientists to form the National Multiple Sclerosis Society.27b889827d7b041c766fd1b5e7ba47fa

As Bernard’s health continued to worsen, she was seeing there were millions of others like her brother that needed help. At this time she gained assistance from Senator Charles Tobey from New Hampshire whose daughter was fighting against Multiple Sclerosis.

Until her dying day February 24, 2001, she continued her war on Multiple Sclerosis. She was a huge loss to the organization, but her legacy will never be forgotten. She did so much to help discover more about this disease and I believe all of us living with Multiple Sclerosis, should always be thankful for this amazing woman!

348sThank y’all for visiting my site today. I hope this post was eye-opening and helpful. Even though we may not be able to help with these causes as much as we would like, if you shop on Amazon or know someone that does, you can set it up so the company will donate portions of your purchase to any charity you want! I hope you have had a lovely weekend and you are ready for the holiday next week. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of     love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

 

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       

Pick Me Up Thursday!

hang-in-there-it-s-almost-friday-hang-in-there-45702078.pngHappy Friday Eve y’all! I hope you are having a wonderful week and feeling the best you possibly can. This is my second week with my new job. Things are still going well and I am learning a lot, but my goodness I am always so damn exhausted. I do not really know what is causing it, except I am getting up earlier than I was with my previous job and yet still staying up a little later than I should, but who would have thought it would take so much outlook on the bright side of me. I am trying my best to stay caught up with Word Press, but I am so sorry to say I am failing with it. I am too far behind on too many of your amazing posts, but I hope to get caught up over the weekend!

After what seems like a long week, I could definitely use a little pick me up and I hope the quote I am sharing with y’all today will serve as a nice pick me up for you. I read and reread this quote many times and could not decide if it was a pick me up or if it was a negative, but when I read it again last night I think there is a lot of positive to it!martinlutherkingjr1

I will share with y’all why I think there is more positive than negative to this quote. Unfortunately, we will all be faced with disappointment in life at some point, but that does not mean we should give up our hopes for happiness. If we allow for the look-for-something-positive-in-every-day-even-if-some-days-you-have-to-look-a-little-hardedisappointments in life to control us and ruin our life, we will never know what true joy it. Yes, holding onto hope when we are disappointed a lot isn’t easy, but we should still NEVER give up because good things are coming our way!

I want to thank you for visiting my site today. I really appreciate you always being understanding to me always being behind, but you know that I will get caught upsmile because the blogging community is absolutely amazing! I hope you have a truly lovely day and your weekend will be full of nothing but joys and happiness! Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Motivational Monday!

make monday sparkleHappy Monday y’all! I hope you had a wonderful weekend and your week will start off excellent. I can’t believe next week is Christmas already and then we will reach 2020! I would say it seems like 2019 went by in a blink of an eye, but really 2017 through 2019 flew by incredibly fast! I still feel like life has been on overdrive and I kind of wish it would slow down, just a little at least! I just hope if life is in such a rush, there is better times in nearby because I am pretty sick of all the horrible things that have gone on worldwide!

On a more positive note I have a great quote to share with y’all today. Honestly, I have had this saved for a few weeks now and was just waiting for the right time. I do hope you will get as much from this quote as I have!grow.jpg

I will explain why this quote means so much to me, but I also want to read what you think as well. I feel that we should all be evolving with the times, instead of devolving. Sadly, I do still think too many are continuously devolving and finding more reasons forsmile hatred because of the color of someone’s skin, who another person loves, the religion another follows and so on. I will never understand this way of thinking because it does in fact cause harm to others, whereas who someone loves causes no pain!

Thank you for stopping by my site today, if I haven’t said it enough I really do appreciate you! I do hope you have a wonderful day and your week will only get better as the days go on. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort, and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

What you need to know about dizziness!

Dizziness medical concept. Vector illustration.How many of you have experienced dizziness before? I have honestly been dealing with this for many years and know just how difficult it can be. It used to be difficult to explain to others because I didn’t completely understand why it was happening, so I didn’t feel I had a right to try explaining it. When I experience dizziness today, the best and most effective way to help someone understand is, to say it feels like I am trying to walk a straight line intoxicated and it isn’t working.

Over the past few days, I to have had these dizziness times more frequently. I am not sure if stop-dizziness-conceptual-illustration-open-hand-text-163893555it is stress, over-tired, the weather changing or all three of them combined. What I can say is it has been extremely frustrating and I just want it to STOP!

I think many people confuse dizziness and vertigo, whereas they are similar they are different at the same time. Dizziness is not simply a disease on its own, but a symptom of a disease. Dizziness is a feeling of being lightheaded, woozy and or unbalanced. These issues affect sensory organs, such as ears and eyes and can cause fainting. There are many causes for dizziness, which include dehydration, migraines, medications, alcohol or problem in the inner ear where balance is regulated.

download (5)Vertigo and disequilibrium both cause dizziness, but they have their differences. Vertigo is known as a spinning sensation and disequilibrium is the loss of balance. Beign Paroxymsmal Postional Vertigo (BPPV) is the most common cause of vertigo. BPPV occurs when changing positions too fast and is short-term dizziness.

Meniere’s Disease is a disease that affects the inner ear. This can cause fluid to build up in the inner ear with associated ear fullness, hearing loss, and tinnitus. This disease can trigger dizziness and vertigo.

POSSIBLE CAUSES OF DIZZINESS ARE:

  • A sudden drop in blood pressure
  • Heart muscle disease
  • The decrease in blood volume
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Anemia ( low iron)dizziness-about.jpg
  • Hypoglycemia ( low blood sugar)
  • Ear infection
  • Dehydration
  • Heatstroke
  • Excessive exercising
  • Motion Sickness
  • Dizziness can also be caused by Multiple Sclerosis, stroke, malignant tumor or another brain disorder.

types-of-dizziness-hh19DIZZINESS CAN BE FELT IN A VARIETY OF DIFFERENT SENSATIONS INCLUDING:

  • A false sense of spinning
  • Lightheartedness or feeling faint
  • Unsteadiness
  • Loss of balance
  • Feeling like you are floating or swimming

If sudden dizziness occurs alongside any of the following, it becomes a lot more URGENT to notify your doctor IMMEDIATELY:dizziness looks like

  • Head injury
  • Headache
  • Neck ache
  • High fever
  • Difficulty speaking
  • Hearing loss
  • Blurred vision
  • Numbness or tingling
  • Droopiness of the eye or mouth
  • Chest Pain
  • Ongoing vomiting

feat-how-to-get-rid-of-dizziness12 STEPS TO HELP PREVENT DIZZINESS

  1. IMMEDIATELY sit or lie down when feeling dizzy and do not get up until the dizziness has stopped. This is easy and could save you from falling because of losing balance.
  2. Utilize a cane or walker to help you with stability.
  3. When walking up or down theavoid-vertical-trip-fall-sign-s-4394 stairs, ALWAYS use the HANDRAILS! Personally, this has helped me many times when I felt a little dizzy halfway down the stairs and knew I would not make it without falling if I wasn’t holding onto something. So handrails can be your best friend that will never let you fall!
  4. Try doing activities to help improve balance.
  5. Do your best to AVOID moving or changing positions suddenly.
  6. If you experience frequent dizziness without any warnings, it might be best to AVOID driving a car.
  7. Caffeine, alcohol, and tobacco can trigger dizziness and possibly even make things worse, so try AVOIDING these substances!
  8. At a minimum try drinking 8 cups of water daily, get 7 or more hours of sleep a night and AVOID stressful situations the best you can.
  9. Eat a HEALTHY diet consisting of fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins to help prevent emergencycaredizziness.
  10. If you feel a certain medication is contributing to your dizziness, talk to your doctor about changing the dosage or the medication altogether. REMEMBER, you know your body better than anyone else and should be heard by your doctor.
  11. Over the counter medications, such as Meclizine (Antivert) or an antihistamine as they both help with nausea and dizziness. These medications can cause additional drowsiness, so be sure you will not have to be active or productive after consuming these medications.
  12. Ensure to rest in a cool place and drink plenty of water if your dizziness is caused by being overheated and or dehydrated.

6 REMEDIES THAT MAY HELP WITH DIZZINESS

  1. Dehydration: Of course various things that can cause dizziness, but we need to 82a2e997ed79b4c2f819093416cbb364understand that dehydration is the most common contributor. If you are feeling tired, thirsty and urinate less while you are dizzy, you should try to drink more water and stay hydrated because it should help you!
  2. Ginger: It has been said that ginger helps relieve symptoms of motion sickness, nausea, and dizziness. There are numerous ways to consume ginger including adding to your diet, Ginger Tea or you can take ginger supplements.
  3. Vitamin C: The Meniere’s Society has suggested the consumption of Vitamin C can a1fe476a2524caab5984b0763be3bd66reduce vertigo. Just a few ideas for you regarding foods that are rich in Vitamin C: oranges, grapefruit, strawberries and bell peppers.
  4. Vitamin E: The supplements for Vitamin E may prevent coronary heart disease, support immune function, prevent inflammation, promote eye health and lower risks of cancer. Another important thing about Vitamin E is, by maintaining the elasticity in the blood vessels, it helps prevent circulation problems. A few foods that contain Vitamin D are wheat germ, seeds, nuts, kiwis and spinach.
  5. Vitamin D: I think it is pretty amazing how much Vitamin D helps us. It promotes healthy bones and teeth, supports immune, brain and nervous system health, regulates insulin levels, and supports lung function and cardiovascular health. Some foods that contain Vitamin D are fatty fish, beef liver, orange juice, cheese, and egg yolk.
  6. Iron: People that have anemia are encouraged to get more iron because their levels change. A few foods that contain iron are red meat, beans, poultry, and dark leafy greens.

I know this post is slightly longer than I normally do, especially now that I am back vertigoworking full-time, but this was important to me because of the insane dizzy spells I have been dealing with for the past few days. I would be lying to you if I said they didn’t scare the hell out of me because they do! On a plus side though, at least I haven’t fallen because my last fall was disastrous.

I hope you had a wonderful weekend and you are feeling well. I also really want to thank you for taking time to not only read this long post, but to also leave great comments. The weekend definitely flew by fast, but I guess that is just how life goes! No pressures to answer this question, but do any of you deal with dizzy spells and if so how to you manage them? Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Let It Go Friday!

bf6b8213b838cde60cb574777611ef90Happy Friday y’all!! I hope your week has gone well and your weekend will be FULL of nothing but happiness and relaxation! I am especially happy the weekend is so close because my week was filled with many changes, learning new things and meeting new people at my new job. All I can say is, I am completely and totally worn out and need to recuperate from a very LONG week!dont-overthink-just-let-it-go-i-nicki-galper

Using Friday as a day to LET GO of anything that didn’t go the way we wanted or just LET GO of any negative energy we may feel will allow for us to enjoy the weekend that much more. Something I already knew, but yet still struggle with is, overthinking everything I do. I tend to overthink every move I make and most of the time, which  really isn’t necessary. I plan to stop overthinking every move I make with my new job because I typically am doing the tasks correctly. 

The quote I am sharing with y’all today is something I need to continue reminding myself of and I hope it will be helpful to you as well!let go 19

First of all, I want to thank you for stopping by my site today. I hope the quote I shared will look on the bright sidemean something to you and y’all know I look forward to reading your comments. Second, I am SO sorry that I am behind yet again on responding to your comments and reading your posts. I have so many posts that I plan to read this weekend when I am not exhausted and can focus. 

I hope you have a fantastic Friday and you enjoy your smileweekend! Y’all have been so understanding and encouraging with me for a long time and I appreciate each and everyone of you. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤

Pick Me Up Thursday!

kitty friday eveHappy Friday Eve y’all! I hope your week has been great and you are feeling the best you possibly can. I have almost made it through my first week at my new job and it really hasn’t been all that bad. I can say that it is much better than the miserable job I can from. This job is a whole new experience for me and I know I8-boss.jpg need to be patient. In my mind, I should be able to know everything after one day, but logically that just isn’t possible. I am glad to have a desk job now and do not have to worry about walking around a lot, which only causes me more pain.

With the holidays approaching us quickly and only one more day left before completing my first week, I could definitely use a little pick me up! The quote I am sharing with y’all today is powerful and I hope it helps lift you up!life-changes-quotes-change-is-painful-1543619239

Even though change can be difficult, without change we really are not growing. We actually need to allow ourselves to accept change and spread our wings and fly to spread-your-wings-and-fly-kathleen-sartorisamazing new things life has to offer us. There isn’t anyone that wants to stay in place that brings nothing but stress and negativity! I stepped out of my comfort zone when I quit my last job, when I didn’t even have another offer yet and things worked our for the better!

I want to thank y’all for visiting my site today. I am looking forward to reading what you positive vibesthink about the quote I shared. I also want to thank each of you for all your encouragement as I made changes to my career path and as I try pursue my dreams of being a full-time writer, someday! I hope you have a wonderful day and your weekend will be full of happy times. Please never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love ❤, comfort and many positive vibes!

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❤Always, Alyssa❤