Even though I have lived with Multiple Sclerosis for more than half of my life and have a solid foundation of understanding it, there are still many unknowns. After all these years of fighting against the unpredictable nature and uncertainties of this disease, I still try to hold onto the hope that one day there will be a cure. Unfortunately, the Internet has too much misinformation and can cause people newly diagnosed or those who have had Multiple Sclerosis for years to become discouraged and feel hopeless. As someone living with this disease, I understand all the negative emotions that can be felt, but I also know how a positive mind can help to combat these emotions. Of course, one reason I have this mindset is because of a promise I made to my late grandfather to never let this disease defeat me. Some days keeping this promise seems nearly impossible, but I can hear his voice in my mind, and it gives me the strength I need to carry on. Plus, this man never let me down, and even though he has been gone since 2013, I believe he is watching over me and I refuse to disappoint him.
It has been 23 years since I received the call with the news regarding my first MRI. My previous eye doctor was the man who pieced the puzzle together when I went to see him because I had lost vision in my left eye. I can still remember being alone in the exam room, terrified I was going blind in one of my eyes. The doctor ran numerous tests and consulted with several of his colleagues before explaining his suspicions that I had Multiple Sclerosis. Once he finished his explanation and I stopped crying long enough, he told me he scheduled me to have an MRI that night. I kept myself composed until I was in my car before bursting into tears again. I went for the MRI only a few hours later, and the call I received was from my eye doctor at 9:30 PM to let me know the MRI revealed his suspicions to be true. Thankfully, my very kind and understanding eye doctor had a friend who was a neurologist, and he fast-tracked an appointment with him, so I avoided all the red tape.
Over the 23 years I have lived with Multiple Sclerosis, there have been good and bad days. Learning to understand and accept this disease are two very different challenges. Even though I could understand the simple terms about Multiple Sclerosis and treatment options, it was not as easy to understand there was no cure. I am thankful for how patient, understanding, and understanding my first neurologist was because he talked me through everything calmly and never once got frustrated with my questions. This fabulous neurologist made understanding the disease easy, but he did not have the magical power to help me accept it any faster because that was something I had to do on my terms and my time. Even though he wanted me to get a disease-modifying medication quickly, he did not push or force me. I think he knew if he tried pushing me too hard, I would shut down and be noncompliant.
When I began my blogging adventure, my goal was to share information and spread awareness about Multiple Sclerosis. I have not done as much as I would have liked, but that is because it can be a touchy and sensitive topic. It is hard enough living with this daily, so when doing something such as writing that provides me comfort and an escape, writing about something that can be upsetting is not easy. No one asks to have any condition or conditions they must endure, and they sure as heck do not deserve it. As a 19-year-old girl, I used to think Multiple Sclerosis was a punishment for something I must have done wrong, but the older I have gotten, I know that is not the case. For some people, they have conditions like Multiple Sclerosis and worse because they are strong enough to handle them and view their disability as a badge of courage. Anyone who battles a condition that can cause extreme pain and still push forward in life should be considered a warrior!
In hindsight, things could have been much worse than they are. Considering there are four different types of Multiple Sclerosis, I am lucky the one I deal with is on the mild side. Even though I understand this, that does not mean my struggles are not miserable at times. It has not been the entire time I have had this disease, but for the past 12-15 years, I go to bed in pain and wake up with the same pain. There is not one minute in the day that I do not have pain, but I now view the pain as an alert I am still alive. I am not sure what I would do if I woke up one morning and did not have pain. If this ever happened, I would think I was dreaming or something worse. It is funny how humans can adapt to awful things and consider them normal.
Thank you for stopping by my site today. If you are someone who lives with Multiple Sclerosis, how long have you had this unpredictable disease? Do you think the medication you are on has helped keep it as under control as possible? I have tried several different treatments, but the only one that seems to help me is Gilenya. The reason this medication helps me keep Multiple Sclerosis at bay is taking a pill once a day is far easier for me than the injection types because I was terrible with them. Everyone is different, and a medication that works for one person might not work as well for another, and there is nothing wrong with that because we are all unique. I think it is often a trial-and-error kind of situation. I would love the opportunity to read your comments, and I will respond as quickly as possible. Please never forget I am always sending y’all LOTS of love♥, comfort, support, and MANY positive vibes!
Always, Alyssa