Successful appointments can happen!

Friday EveHappy Friday Eve Y’all! I hope you have had a fantastic day! I was having so much anxiety over my doctor’s appointment today because I had been given a run around with this doctor. I went into this appointment very prepared with pages of notes so I would not miss a thing and also had no expectations at all! To my surprise, everything went the right and ethical way!

It was not until recently that I have started going into my appointments with notes because I tend to forget at least one thing because I often feel rushed knowing the doctor has other patients waiting. I have learned that it is very important to take control of the appointment and be very prepared so no time is wasted. By taking control and knowing exactly what you want out of the appointment it shows the doctor that you have expectations of the appointment and demand quality care! These doctors see so many patients each day that they probably feel overwhelmed, even if they do not say those words out loud. I will admit I have learned that if I keep my expectations of my determinedappointments relatively low, I will not be frustrated and disappointed. Today’s appointment went very well and my doctor even apologized to me for all that I have gone through these past couple of weeks!

I think it is extremely important that even when things seem like they are all going wrong, to find it within yourself to never give up! In my opinion, giving up is the only way to truly fail! I have spent a few weeks now fighting for my rights to live a life as pain-free as possible and all my fighting has paid off! I have fought for myself with two different doctors and things are all going right for me now. Sometimes you have to fight in a pleasant way, if that makes any sense. It is so true that you get more flies with honey, so handling all situations in a positive and since way works for the best!

Thank you for visiting my site today and I look forward to reading your comments. I promise you that I will respond to all of your comments just as quickly as I can! I hope you have an amazing and relaxing evening! On an extremely positive note, tomorrow is Friday and then we have the weekend to enjoy ourselves! As always, I am sending y’all lots of love and comfort!!

Love 2

Always, Alyssa

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Last day of March!

MS AwarenessAs you already know today is the last day of March and Multiple Sclerosis Awareness Month. Has it been a pretty good month for y’all or have things been like a carbon copy of February? I feel like things are about the same with most things in life. The political world seems like it is still a bit of a mess with a little too much drama for me! Too many grown men acting like children in a playground! We can continue to hope for better times though and even if everyone around us continues to act the same, we can all just stay optimistic and happy with what we have been blessed with in life!

I can say that I have learned so much about how to handle doctor’s appointments better! I use to go into the appointments with many things I wanted to discuss, but then always would get distracted and feel rushed normally by the doctors actions. It never failed, I would leave the appointment and remember things I needed to get answers to and be angry with myself for forgetting. This last appointment I had everything I had questions about written down, which was wonderful because at the end of the appointment I looked at my notes and almost forgot one important question! As y’all know I have another appointment on Thursday and I know already I need to be very prepared and honestly keep my expectations low just so I will not be upset afterwards. I feel my upcoming appointment is pretty important because I am going in fighting for myself and my well-being!

At the end of MS Awareness month, I want to say I hope those that were not familiar with MS learned a lot and those battling MS gained even more knowledge. MS is definitely not the easiest illness to live with, not that any really are easy, but at the same time we all handle it as well as we can! It is a very unpredictable and at times extremely painful illness to live with, but MS Warrior 2there is no use dwelling on that. Dwelling on what we have to live with only causes more issues in the long run. It is extremely important to do our best to remain positive and stand strong to how we manage our illness. Giving up on our hopes for a cure will not make it happen any faster and will not help us living today! I feel very strongly that we all, no matter what our struggles are must live in the now. Living in the past will not change anything, but it might hinder our present times! We all should have already learned from our past experiences and therefore let it all go and moved on!

I hope y’all are enjoying your weekend! Hopefully the weather is beautiful for you and you are able to get a little sunshine! A little bit of sunshine can do wonders for our mind and spirit! I hope y’all are feeling well and of course staying as positive as you can. I appreciate you stopping by my site today and I will of course respond to any comments you might have as quickly as I can! As always I am sending y’all lots of love and comfort!

Love 2

Always, Alyssa

First time for Everything!

be-thankful-to-your-bad-days_516Today was my appointment with my MS Specialist and it went very well! The Nurse Practitioner I saw actually took the time to listen to my concerns and did not dismiss any of my fears. To be perfectly honest, I went into this appointment with low expectations to protect myself from disappointment and frustration. I am so happy to say that even though this appointment lasted a longtime; I left the doctor’s office feeling much better about the issues I have been struggling with. The NP took time to actually talk to me about the headaches I have had for so long and come up with ideas to hopefully eliminate them. We talked about the pain issues that have increased over the past few months and she had some very valid thoughts about why that was happening. She helped relieve the stress I was putting on myself about my illness progressing by reassuring me I am doing everything I can and feels that I am controlling it the best I can. She told me to not over think what could happen and just live in the moment. I thought that was great advice because I do tend to think everything and go to worse case scenarios all the time, which really is not helpful to me or my mental state. Moving forward I am going to stay on the Gilenya because it is the best choice for me and did control my illness for 6 years before I decided to try something new. I was thinking the Gilenya was causing my headaches, but the NP today pointed out that I had headaches way before Gilenya was a factor.  My appointment today was by far the best and most enlightening appointment I expectationshave had in a long time and gave me a new perspective on things!

As I already said, I went into my appointment today with very low expectation, which was helpful overall! I have found over the years if you set your expectations for others too high there will always be a high probability of disappointment. Therefore, if you just keep your expectations lower you will never be disappointed because you are not presuming anything! This may seem like a pessimistic way to live, but it saves a lot of heartache and frustration. In our hearts we know who we can count on in life and who we question counting on. Others must prove to us that we can rely on them and live up to the standards we have. I do believe we all need at least one person that we can truly count on and that person will never let us down. There is always at least one person you confide in and know they will always be there to support you, no matter what! Trust is a very delicate thing that can be destroyed quickly and take a very long time to rebuild, if it is even possible.

Of course I am delighted my appointment went as well as it did today, but now I am hoping the appointment I have next Thursday will go just as well. I will go into the 2-quote-about-no-matter-how-impossible-unattainable-or-unim-image-background-imageappointment next week just as prepared as I was today, but also go in with no expectations at all. I believe that being prepared and having notes with you can be extremely beneficial because it is easy to forget important details. I think being in the exam room can be a little stressful which makes it easy to lose track of what you want to discuss. Doctors have busy schedules and have a limited amount of time allotted to each patient. So I found having set topics you need to talk about ready will make the appointment much more useful to you and not waste any time! I know that if I did not prepare last night for this appointment and have my topics written down, I would have missed a lot of important information. 

I hope y’all had a great Friday Eve and I hope y’all are feeling well! I really appreciate you taking the time to visit my site today and I look forward to reading your comments! All of your comments are very meaningful to me and I will respond as quickly as I can. I hope y’all have a lovely evening!! I am always sending each of you lots of love and comfort! 

Love 2

Always, Alyssa

Fight for your health!

fight for a cureI hope y’all have a lovely Monday! First day of a new week may bring some wonderful and positive changes to all of our lives! I really appreciate y’all visiting my site today and as always love to read your comments, which I do respond to as quickly as I can! Most of the time I like to write about the random things that are on my mind. This helps me to release all those emotions and then getting your feedback help tremendously, so thank you for all of your fantastic comments!

How do you fight for your health instead of fight against it? It is so important to be vocal with your doctor and never allow them to dismiss what you say or rush you out of the exam room. We all know our bodies and how we are feeling better than anyone, so that should be listened to. I think at times it is hard to admit what our body is telling us and our body feels as though it has to scream it at us, which may cause additional issues. I am one that will ignore issues that arise for as long as possible because I do not want to admit to the problems. Ignoring or neglecting our health will never result in anything beneficial. This is where fighting for our health becomes extremely important. If we ignore what our body is telling us we are actually fighting against our own health.

I am actually going to my MS Specialist on Thursday. I am going to my specialist partially because I am supposed to see her every 6 months and partially because I want to share with her my concerns. I already know going in that my issues with headaches will be dismissed because she seems to think that MS and headaches have no correlation, but I think it is still important to bring the topic up once again. I also want to discuss with her the fact that the issues that came with my relapse in October have not really gone away. I am fully aware that the body heals from each relapse differently, but I should have improved drastically by now and not continue to have pain that affects my ability to work full-time. I just really need answers to why I seem to be at a stand still in health. Do y’all have any suggestions to how to grab this doctor’s attention?

I hope y’all have a great and relaxing evening! As always I am sending y’all lots of love and comfort! Try to hold onto your positive thoughts because they will help in the long run and negative thoughts will only hold you back.

Love 2

Always, Alyssa

Doctor Run Around Day

happy weekendI hope y’all had a good Friday. My Friday was running around from a doctor’s appointment to the Pharmacy, just to have the call the doctor back because he did not call in my prescriptions. I was waiting on several prescriptions to be called to the pharmacy , and literally nothing was going right at all! After about 3 hours of constant phone calls and waiting, I finally got everything I needed! What a fun way to spend a Friday? Even after I made it home, I was still on the phone and messaging the doctors. Unfortunately, I did not really get any answers or help!

But, tomorrow afternoon my husband is driving me over to get the MRI done. I am still hoping they will be able to get me those results by Monday, so if anything is wrong we can start treating the issue! I am of course trying to decide if I am going to take another day off, so I have the time to stay on top of getting my results. 

Between arguing with doctors and go to the pharmacy to sit and wait, I did not have my time to relax today. I am hoping that have the MRI tomorrow, I will just be able to relax and maybe feel like myself againbutterfly peace!

I hope y’all have a good weekend and do something you can enjoy! I will let you know how the MRI goes tomorrow, normally the MRI tech gives me a hint on what they see! There is a great team at the hospital that knows how much I hate waiting, the do not tell me everything, they do is in subtle way. 

 

Love 2

Always, Alyssa