Good morning y’all! I hope you had a wonderful weekend and you are feeling the best you can! Monday’s give us the opportunity to forget about anything and everything that didn’t go our way last week and start fresh again! Do you have any new goals you want to accomplish this week? I actually do have a goal I really want to succeed with! This goal is to stress much less than I have been and just stay calm. In the past I would always stress myself way too much about work wanting to excel and grow. This
got me absolutely nowhere, but headaches and anxiousness. My new way of thinking is I am going to get paid the same amount whether I stress or not and it just isn’t worth it to continue my stressful ways. Don’t get me wrong, I am still going to do my best at work, but I am not going to do extra by going above and beyond or working towards that promotion that would just be a stressful situation (let’s see how long this mindset sticks with me!)!
The quote I am going to share with y’all today is all about focusing on positive thoughts. I feel that thinking positive provides us with the best results. I think everything happens for a reason and when it is meant to and not any sooner! You aren’t able to force anything to occur because if it’s forced it probably won’t last or provide serenity. I hope you find motivation and encouragement in this quote!
Thank y’all for stopping by my site today! Not only do I appreciate your continued support, but also for being so understanding with my delayed responses most of the time. I am doing the best I can to keep up with reading/commenting on other blog, maintaining the materials for my own posts, working full-time and household things. I am sure I will get there in time, but I will not post anything without substance!
I hope y’all have a great start to the week and it stays that way! Life gets busy and it is so easy to fall behind on things we enjoy, but we have to keep pushing! Never forget that I am always sending y’all LOTS of love , comfort and many positive vibes!
Always, Alyssa
Awesome Attitude!!! Good for you, Alyssa!!!! 💗 💗 💗
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Thank you so much! I am trying to find ways to not allow stress to consume my life and control me!! Let’s see how long I can keep this attitude!!
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You? The affirmation queen? Alyssa, I say you better look some up, print them out and spread them around the house and at your desk!
I have faith in you… You can do it!!! 😊💗
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Thank you so much Beckie!! Have you ever heard that those who can’t do, teach? I think that is kind of like myself. I am really good at giving advice and supporting others through hard times, but absolutely horrible at following my advice. It isn’t easy to change my stressed ways after being that way my entire life, but I am going to keep trying!!!! Nothing is worth stressing about, especially if there is nothing we can do about it! I appreciate your encouragement and I promise I will never give up trying and I do not make promises unless I mean them!!!
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That’a girl! 😊
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I tend to be very strong minded and some people don’t like that about me, but it is just who I am!
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We’reall built with differnet strengths… Strong minded is not a bad thing. On the contrary, it’s one of the best qualities you have! 🤗
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Thank you so much!! I know my doctor and a few others would disagree, but what do they know!?
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Who gives a rat’s butocks what other’s think. It’s what you think and feel inside that counts the most! Don’t ever forget that… Stop worrying so much about wht others think, and concentrate on your own well-being. 🤗
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I am learning to not give a hoot what others think. Most people in my day-to-day life do not matter in the big picture.
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That’s a great way fo thinking. You must always remember that you are what matters, what you believe in yourself. That’s it!
I’m proud of you! 💗
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Thank you so much Beckie!! I am trying to focus on my own happiness and NEVER allowing anyone to steal that from me. Seriously, most people I have to talk to daily do not matter in the bigger picture. People who know me, like yourself, understand how I am and appreciate me for me!!
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😊Good girl!!!
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Thank you sweet girl!! I promise to never give up!
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may you have a relaxed day! 🙂
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Have an amazing week ahead 😇
Lots of loveeee❤️
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Thank you so much! I hope you have a very great week as well!!
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My pleasure 😘
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Above everything else….take care of YOU 💜 Have a great week!
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Thank you so much! I am trying to take better care of myself and stressing less should help!!! I hope you have a wonderful week and you are feeling well!!
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Alyssa, if you find a way to stress less, some magic way to make it happen, PLEASE LET ME KNOW! Major stresshead and even though I know it does no good, it’s like I’m set to ‘max stress’ on default.
I hope this week goes well for you & that you succeed in your goal, even if it’s just taking things down a notch when you consciously remember to stay calm, just a little less stress would do you the world of good I’m sure 🙂
Caz xx
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Caz, I am right there with you! I have been a massive stress case for many years, but I am trying. With work I refuse to do more than I am paid for, which isn’t much! Now that is just one part of stress for me, there are MANY MANY MANY other things I still stress about and I don’t know how to stop. I do know how much better I would feel if I didn’t stress about every little thing, but I have been this way my entire life.
One step at a time and at least I will stick with what I shared about work stress!! Girl are so much a like, you are like the sister I never had!! Take care sweetie!!
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Great motivational quotes Alyssa – do what you feel comfortable with. I was a go-getter and it got me no further and I soon realized that the more you do, the more you are expected to do. It is nice to be reliable and the go-to person, but it adds to more stress.
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My plan is to do what I can, but not push myself too far! I have always been the person that would never say no and do more and more and more, but that was way too stressful!
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I’ve always done that too Alyssa but it was not always the best option as you know!
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I know you are right and I am doing the best I can right now by not pushing myself at all. A job is just what it is, a job to pay the bills..
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Yes, it is that and can really tie you down if you let it … best not to do that from the get-go.
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My goal in life right now is to not let things hold me down and cause me stress. Life is WAY too short for all of this!
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Take care of yourself and have a blessed week!❤️
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Thank you sweetie!
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