Good morning y’all! I hope you are having a great week so far and just think we are half way to the prize of the much-needed weekend! My week thus far has been a little busy at work because one person is on vacation. I mean I guess we all need a vacation, but the “team” I work with was already down one person. I do use the term “team” loosely because most of the time we are anything but that! There is way too much lack of communication, which in my opinion never results in success for anyone involved! Y’all probably already know my how my personality is and that I will push myself a little too far most of the time. Prior to this week I was struggling to work just 6 hours, but I am pushing myself to do more this week! I have been doing 6.5 hours early in the week and plan to do 7 for the rest of the week! I know this sounds pretty crazy considering 6 hours was killing me, but at least I do have the evenings to rest!
It seems that life just has a way of becoming iincredibly difficult at times. There are times that I honestly feel trapped in the shell of my body and want to find a way to escape from it! When my pain gets out of control and or the heat takes the life out of me, I just want to find a peaceful place to run to! I have found that music is absolutely the best therapy for everything!!! Suffering with pain, I turn the music up loud to distract my mind from the pain I am feeling. Battling with stress, I turn the music up even louder to drown the negative thoughts out. Crying with sadness, I will submerge into the music for comfort and peace. Frustrated with your job, which I normally am, I turn the music up even louder to avoid all the negative energy that is surrounding me!
Maybe it is just me but I can get completely lost in music! There are certain songs that resonate with what I am feeling at any moment in time. There are even songs that can turn a really bad day into something a lot more positive! To me there is more to a song than just the words being sang, but the musicality of a song that can take me to another place far away from any pressures I am feeling! Sometimes the mood I am in might require lots of base to drown out my thoughts and other times I just need a nice soothing song to ease my mind.
This week I was fortunate enough to be nominated to do the song/lyric challenge which was absolutely amazing! I shared with y’all two songs from The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, but what I failed to share was my husband and I were able to see this band play live last Friday! Having the opportunity to see one of our favorite bands, which also holds SO much sentimental meaning was a wonderful way to end the week! The funny thing is, we almost did not go because I was in a lot of pain. Even though I suffered the consequences on Saturday, I am still SO incredibly glad we went! The music and being able to interact with this amazing band after the show was well worth the pain I endured! I am also still thrilled that I was able to meet Erin Winter, which is Randy Winter’s wife. Randy is one of the amazing guitarists from this band and has always been so kind to my husband and I! I had gotten to know Erin on Facebook, so finally meeting her in person was wonderful as she really is an amazing woman!
Thank y’all so much for taking the time to visit my site today and I definitely look forward reading your comments as I know they will be great! I hope you have a wonderful Wednesday and really hope you are feeling the best you possibly can! Please always remember that no matter what I may be going through, I am always sending y’all LOTS of love and comfort!
Always, Alyssa
You will just have to experiment, making gradual adjustments…and with everything constantly changing, like the rest of us, you may not ever get it exactly the way you wish… the important thing is to keep trying and living life!… 🙂
“Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything.” Plato
LikeLiked by 3 people
Thank you for this great comment, I always appreciate what you have to say. I hope the rest of the week goes well for you!
LikeLike
Reblogged this on Survivors Blog Here.
LikeLike
Music and chocolate is my fav therapy. 🙂
LikeLiked by 3 people
That is the perfect combination!! What kind of music do you listen to?
LikeLike
I’m still stuck in the grunge era from the 90’s, good music that helps vent my frustrations with MS quite well. I’m a Rock and Roll boy at heart, I listen to stuff from Marilyn Manson to Charlotte Martin. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
YES!!!! Rock and Roll is great!!!! I like a lot of 80’s rock because it was a time when bands took pride in their work! I am going to have to look up Charlotte Martin because this is a first for me! Considering you like rock, you should check out a newer band called The Pretty Reckless. They are amazing!!!!!!
LikeLike
I’ll have to do that!
LikeLiked by 1 person
There is one song that I have been drawn to lately and it is because of all the horrible things going on in the world. There is a fowl word in the title so I am not sure I should share the real title, but I will tell you the censored version. It’s A “Messed” Up World (Messed up isn’t in the unedited version!) The real word begins with a F:)
LikeLike
Loved how MUSIC was interweaved into your week in many beautiful pathways. My daughter needs music also. Course she was in the high school band from 4th grade through high school. And had the opportunity to be the clarinet Section Leader for her last two years of high school. I assumed this was a reason why she was so passionate about music but perhaps like you it just speaks to her in ways that only the notes played with words sang in the right tones can deliver!!
Nice post Alyssa!!!
LikeLiked by 2 people
Thank you so much! It definitely sounds like music speaks to your daughter is very special ways and it probably always will. Music has a way to keep be semi balanced in my thoughts which is wonderful.
You are right, music did interweave into my life this week and I never even thought about it like that! See music was working on my emotions and stress in powerful ways!
LikeLike
Good thoughts!! That was one of my favorite challenges you’ve done Alyssa!!!
I learned a lot about your sentimental side. Your a sweet hearted soul!!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you! It was honestly my favorite challenges and I really enjoyed it!
My sentimental side often takes control of me!
LikeLike
I love that about you!!!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Aww, thank you! It can be a blessing and a curse depending on the day!!
LikeLike
Music is totally my therapy too. If I want inspiring, I put on a musical soundtrack, if I need a boost I put on hard core or heavy metal and when I need to mellow, classical is where it’s at. Music is a magical human gift, I so agree with you about the value of it as therapy! 💕
LikeLiked by 2 people
Yes!! The different types of music add so much to our lives. Our moods often require a certain time and it is amazing how helpful it really is!! I use to listen to classical music when I was in school and needed to study! I do love all types of music, but frown on country because it is a little depressing!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Haha! Country’s not high on my list either! 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am sure there are some good country songs, but VERY few!! I can’t seem to get a smiley face on my comments!! I do : and the ) but it never works!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I use emojis 😍🤓😜😘
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hmm, can I do that from a laptop or does it have to be a phone or tablet?
LikeLike
I’m not sure about a laptop, I’m on an iPad.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am trying it on my tablet, it is not an IPad though 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
It worked! 👍🏻
LikeLike
It’s about time! I just have to do it on my tablet :)! Now I am super excited I can do smiley faces;)
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yay! I’m partial to them too. 😊
LikeLiked by 1 person
They are kinda fun to play with :Desktop
LikeLiked by 1 person
Music therapy is the best. Each person has his/her own type of music that hits the right chords and helps one to relax, even heal. With me, it’s classical Spanish guitar like Los Romeros playing Concierto de Aranjuez. For others it may be something from the era of Fleetwood Mac, or modern folk music of Joan Baez. Whatever it is, indulge it. Fall into it. Feel it. Then feel your pain and/or angst slip away.
LikeLiked by 2 people
That is amazing! I have heard classical Spanish guitar before and it is nice! I do agree, everyone has their own type of music that hits them where it helps whatever they are dealing with. I honestly do love all types of music, but I do shy away from country because it is a little too depressing at times! Thank you for your amazing comment!
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is a difficult time of the year to work. Co-workers going on vacation shifts the burden on others. And if your “team” was already down, it makes it even more difficult. As you stated, music is a great therapy. I don’t know what I would do without it.
Have a great day.
LikeLiked by 1 person
It is a difficult time, plus it is a busy time of year for my type of work. My team is a pretty negative team and I do my best to work well with them. It is difficult working with all “boys” that seem to think it is best to act like they are 3! Music saves me everyday at work and actually saves others as well! Without music in my ears, I would get SO frustrated and probably say mean things!
So tomorrow I am starting my motivational Thursday, but I am taking your advice and calling it Pick-Me-Up Thursday! If it is okay with you, I am naming you as the one that helped name it and share your blog. If that isn’t okay, I won’t do it!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Smiling. Looking forward to reading it. Thanks.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I really hope you will like it! I am encouraging people to visit your site and read your absolutely amazing poems!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
You are very sweet. Very flattered. Thank you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
You are most welcome!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love your determination Alyssa and I hope the concert brought back happy memories of your marriage proposal. X
LikeLiked by 2 people
Thank you so much! I am a pretty stubborn and determined person, it isn’t always a good thing, but I still try! Oh yes being at the concert and listening to the song they played after the proposal brings back many great memories!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
You’re welcome Alyssa! Ah, that must have been lovely and it’s great to hear!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh it really was! They are not only put on a great show, but they are wonderful people!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m so glad you’re finding music so therapeutic. I must admit I used to be addicted to music, especially in my teens and even early 20s, but then it seemed to go downhill from there. I miss it, I miss getting lost in it, having it as my companion whether at home or out for a walk. I need to have it back more regularly in my life too. Great post – Music really has magical qualities.x
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am really glad you liked this post! Honestly, I kind of think some music has gone down hill and it isn’t as passionate as it once was. But there are still some bands that have so much influence and passion, I just get lost in the song. It is a great escape to the reality of the world! I am sure when the time is right, you will find your way back to music!!
LikeLike
Music is my therapy. I used to be part of choir for many years and I still love singing and music. Music is like an escape for me and an outlet for all of my emotions and when I sing I feel I can be free.
Remember what I said though, listen to your body and don’t push yourself too much with the 7 hours days.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Music definitely has some real meaning and power to it! I also find music to be a great escape from the reality of the world!
I remember what you said and I am trying to listen to my body more and not push too far!
LikeLike
Music is my therapy too. It has the power to completely transform my day and my mood. Great post, Alyssa!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much! I am happy you enjoyed this post! I could not agree more! There are many songs that can take me out of a bad mood with ease!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much for sharing. I’m glad to hear that music helps you through tough times as I could totally agree as well. If you have a chance, i would really appreciate it if you could check out my music and art blog! https://rawdumplings.wordpress.com/drawings/
It’d mean a lot!
LikeLiked by 2 people
You are more than welcome! Thank you for much for visiting and following my site, I do really appreciate you! I will definitely check out your site as well and look forward to it!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hello! I find your blog absolutely inspirational. Thank you for sharing. I wish you the best.
xoxo
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am sorry for the delayed response, but thank you so much! I am delighted that you find my blog inspirational! I hope you had a fabulous weekend!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
thank you so much I wish the same for you as well!
LikeLiked by 1 person
You are very welcome and I do appreciate your comment!!
LikeLike
Pingback: Music Therapy is the BEST! — Fightmsdaily – SEO
I’m going to attempt to learn the bass guitar.. I’ve fiddled with the 6-string since I was a teenager. I’m a lot older now lol, but playing music gets you in a zone. And it’s awesome sometimes.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Music is an amazing escape from the realities we all face. I have a tendency to just get lost in music and it takes me to a happier place! Good luck with the bass guitar, it seems difficult, but you can do it!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Most people claim it’s easier. 4 strings rather than 6… but it’s a world of it’s own. Thank you for the encouragement! I need it lol!
LikeLiked by 1 person
You are very welcome!! Everyone in this world has an opinion, but your thoughts on which is harder is what matters. You should be proud for trying something new!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Music has saved me …many times.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Music really does have amazing and slightly magical powers! I am glad music has saved your life and hope it continues to do this!!
LikeLike
Thank you for sharing.
I have nominated you for the 3 day Lyric challenge.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you! I will do my best to start this weekend. Still getting things unpacked with the new place, but I will do this challenge!
LikeLike
Pingback: Music Therapy is the BEST! — Fightmsdaily – Global Pharma Hub 💭⌚👓
Thank you for reblogging! I do find music to be the best therapy for most everything!
LikeLike
I totally agree that music can be very therapeutic. I also believe that there is a song for every emotion and every situation. Whether it’s joy or anger or sadness, music is like a best friend that is always there for you, and it can seriously get you through the rollercoaster that we call life. If you’re interested in finding the perfect songs for various life scenarios, from breakups to morning motivation, then please check out my blog! https://yougottahearthesesongs.wordpress.com/ I think you’ll like it, especially song #4 😉
LikeLiked by 1 person
That is great! Thank you for introducing me to your blog and I really am looking forward to reading even more of it!!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Exciting and interesting post liked your thoughts.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you! I am really glad you enjoyed!
LikeLike