Happy Valentine’s Day to all! I might be wrong, but I do not believe we need a holiday to show our significant other that we love them. It seems like Valentine’s Day has become more of a consumerism day to buy cards, flowers, jewelry, balloons and candy when it was supposed to be all about love! My husband and I do not need a designated day to show how we feel about each other, we show our love and appreciation for one another every day of the year!
Valentine’s Day can also be a sad day for some. What about those who have lost a loved one recently? Or what about those whose relationship has come to a bitter end? Or those that are single and are not going home to a loved one? I am not saying we need to hide our love for our significant others to shelter those that are not enjoying Valentine’s Day, but we should not go to huge extremes on only one day to prove our love.
I truly hope y’all have had a good day! I do not mean to sound so anti Valentine’s Day, I just feel pretty strong that love should be shown and felt everyday of the year! I do my best to always make sure my husband knows just how much he means to me and he does the same!
Thank you for stopping by my site today and reading my thoughts. Whether you agree or disagree with me, I would love to hear your own thoughts about Valentine’s Day. Is it a holiday that you love or hate? I am sending each and every one of you lots of love and comfort, everyday not just today!!
Always, Alyssa
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I agree with you with you, and always think about the people who can end up feeling worse because of days like Valentines. Having said that though, I hope you have had a lovely Valentines. 🙂 xxx
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Thank you so much! I worked for 6 hours and now I am home to spend quite time with my husband! I think just being able to be together is enough! I hope you have had a great day as well!!! Sending you love and comfort!!!
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I totally agree Alyssa, it’s the little every day things that count.
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Exactly! Real love is known daily! The smallest things are what matter and add up. I am not the type that needs flowers, jewelry, candy and balloons. I am pretty easy to get along with!
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Lots of love, my dear.
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Likewise Sweetie! I hope you have had a wonderful day!!!
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It was great, thank you. U2.
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I am so glad you had a great day!!
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I agree!! We should be expressing our love all the days of the year. Valentine’s Day is just another day. There doesn’t need to be a specific day we shower gifts to those we love. This should already be instilled the day we say “I do”
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Thank you! It seems like many missed that growing up. I am so glad you said that, this should be instilled in us when we say “I do”! I really appreciate your amazing comment ♡
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Great post and so true! It was an exhausting Valentine’s Day for me. Our Boxer, Mia, passed away last night so none of us slept well. You know what not getting enough sleep can do to us with MS! I haven’t even felt like crocheting and I have a couple orders to get out! Happy Valentines to you and your hubby!
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Oh my goodness, I am so sorry about your loss. I know that was not easy and can not imagine you slept at all. I hope you get some rest today. My heart goes out to you:(
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Thanks Alyssa!!!
Jen
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You are welcome! I know it is not easy. Please know I am here for you if I can do anything to help!
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I’m with you on this Hallmark Holiday.
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Thank you! I really do think it is kind of a BS holiday! It almost seems like some are overcompensating for what they failed to do. I really appreciate your comment!!!
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I totally agree.
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Thank you!!
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